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How to resolve parenting time conflicts

Spouses in Indiana who have different parenting styles may occasionally encounter parenting time conflicts. There is a lot of work that goes into raising children from two separate households. Both parents should try to put aside their differences so they can remain a positive influence on their children while raising them.

Stay focused on the kids

The marriage is over. The focus of the relationship with each other is their kids. They should place their children’s needs above their own when it comes to parenting time. Rescheduling personal events and making extra time to spend with their kids can help parents to create a schedule that has minimal conflict. The purpose of parenting time is to give children an opportunity to be raised by both of their parents. Former spouses should consider their current situations and lifestyles when making visitation schedules to avoid making decisions that are steeped in fear and uncertainty, states

Do not make it personal

Co-parenting is all about the kids. Parents should try to leave their personal feelings behind when making decisions about them. They should not let their feelings dictate their words or actions. According to, when conflicts arise, parents can become more flexible when they try to understand the other’s viewpoint and compromise.

Learn to relinquish control

Some parents overstep their boundaries and interfere with the way their partners raise their kids. Ex-spouses should stop trying to be controlling and allow their former partners to parent their kids in the manner they deem best. They should continue to watch for signs of issues that may go against the best interest of their kids and keep the other parent informed so they can discuss the issues and resolve them civilly.

Parents who are willing to work on their relationships with each other and develop different strategies to resolve conflicts for the benefit of their kids can improve the outcome of their co-parenting situation.

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